There is a baby. But he is dead: “Mother shares a horrible story

“Oh my God, you’re pregnant.”

The nurse had whispered her as a revelation. As if he had been giving good news.

But the whole ash could make it blink.

He had to re -explain his nightmare: “It’s literally all the reason I am here … There is a baby. But it’s dead.”

“Could have endangered life”

ASH had just completed a routine urine test before surgery, which had marked high levels of HCG (human corioon gonadotropin).

Weeks earlier, Mother Gold Coast finished her pregnancy after the embryo implanted in the scar of Section C, left of her previous pregnancy.

“It would have been as if I was threatened to life if this pregnancy had continued,” Ash revealed Children’s point.

The terrifying list of risks with which it encountered damage to the permanent bladder, severe hemorrhage and the potential need for a hysterectomy.

The scar tissue does not stretch like the uterus. If the baby had left to grow with the placenta stuck to his scar, the result could have been devastating.

It is one of the rarest ways of pregnancy, so rare that many doctors had not had much experience with a case like theirs. It meant different specialists, numerous appointments and trying to find the information that could be online.

He went to Google, Facebook and Tiktok groups to find others who had experienced the same.

“I have tried all possible as the hashtag as” Cesarean scar “,” Defect of section C “. I tried them all,” he revealed.

“It’s crazy that, as women, we don’t even know our own bodies and how things can work. It’s just … it’s crazy.”

Originally, after ending their pregnancy, the doctors wanted to wait for their body to absorb and pass the pregnancy. The doctors treated her with methotrexate. They only do not foresee complications.

Ash was inside and outside the emergency rooms, constantly asking doctors to do something to help them.

“This led to a waterfall of months of emergency trips to the hospital where he had hemorrhage hemorrhages and intense pain,” he said.

“It would come to the emergency and then say that there is nothing we can do. You just have to wait for this to be absorbed by your body.”

The mental toll of waiting became mass.

“I took a day,” he admitted.

“How many emergency trips to the hospital will I have to pass?”

“My bladder was fully attached to my cesarean -scar scar default”

Throughout this process, Ash repeatedly requested other options. He had asked the doctors to make an D&C (dilation and curvetage).

“They are not, you can’t have an D&C due to pregnancy location,” he said.

The doctors were worried that it could cause a rupture of their uterus.

After months of complications, pain and being a gas drug, a private surgeon in Brisbane performed a laparoscopic resection assisted by robot of his uterus.

“They opened the uterus. He removed the ancient pregnancy,” he said.

But he found something else.

“My bladder was as if it were fully attached to my cesarean scar defect on the outside of my uterus,” Ash revealed.

“He said it was like a concertinal concertin three times and stuck.”

He explained a lot.

“I just thought, it is not uncommon for never to completely empty the bladder after giving birth,” he said.

For Ash, he explained the symptoms he had ignored for years.

“So I remember to have asked,” This is why this could never be emptied by the bladder? “, He said.

“From surgery, my bladder has been as normal. Like pre-children.”

“No one talks about this”

More and more mothers are experiencing chapters in their history, and in some cases some mothers replicate their experience.

“This is what made me want to share on Tiktok. The number of women who have entered my inbox and they said” I, did not even know it, “said Ash.

“We don’t even know our own bodies, because no one talks about it.”

And all this, one thing kept her. His son.

“I thought,” I have to be fine. I have to be here for him, “he said.)

No matter how much this baby wanted, he already had a young child who needed his mother. “

The door is not closed for more children, but the risks are now clear.

“They allow me to return to try after the three -month mark,” Ash said.

“But there is a possibility that it can be an ectopic again.”

Any new pregnancy would be at high risk and would require a close follow -up and an early part for repeated cesarean section.

“I don’t know if I’m brave enough to risk it,” he admitted.

“I want another baby … but I also want to keep me alive for what I already have.”